Monday, September 5, 2011

The Circle of Academicians

The last 5 weeks of my doctorate studies focused on the realm of academics. We discussed many topics about traits and characteristics an academician should acquire to be successful in this field. Good discussions took place. Out of these two topics, I want to share here two concepts that was raised. Both of them were mine. One I shared with the rest of the team, the other one I kept to myself, and now for you.

The first idea was related to Clifton's strengths. I made a bold statement that a successful academician should have at least one of the following strengths: Ideation, Intellection, Learner, Connectidness or  Restorative. I would if my idea will pass the research test. it could be a thesis for one of my assignments.

The second idea is the Community of Practice. Some of the participants doubted the rules of the academic world. At the same time, during my MOOC course, I discovered that the Mooc'ers wanted to adapt their approach to the academic world. I am opposing this approach. I feel the academic world is a different community of practice than the Mooc'ers, which are different that common wisdom of the layperson. Each one follow different set of rules.

As an illustration of the situation, I like to use the following two scenarios:

(1) Consider a person who does not drink alcohols joining a wine tasting club. That person will be counterproductive to himself and the members. it is the same story. A person who does not appreciate the academic environment and wants to obtain a PhD will lose himself and make the experience of the other PhD'ers bad.

(2) Consider a person who gambles by playing Poker. If her tries to play Black Jack with the poker rules will definitely lose all his money, even if he won a couple of rounds. Consequently, if you want to study PhD, you should play by the rules of the PhD otherwise the study will be a total of loss, even if he won some arguments.
Just two illustration I wanted to capture before i perish.

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Peace to me!

In a letter to a friend, I mentioned that most of the people use the phrase "Peace Upon You", "Shalom" and "Salamu Alaykoum" (which all mean Peace) without knowing what the Peace really means.

Then a friend of mine statused his facebook with the phrase: "Kindness is to love others even if they do not deserve it".

Then it came to me. I commented on his status with "Peace is to love others without thinking if they deserve it or not". What an epiphany!

This matches Jesus wisdom: Love Thy Enemy. I need to find reference in other religions!

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

The Perfect Person

My mother in law, who was on a drive with us towards Las Vegas, commented that a perfect person will not make mistakes. My reply was "to the contrary, a perfect person is someone who makes a lot of mistakes, but never repeat the same one twice". I felt these words of wisdom. So, I captured them here.


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Location:Clearwater, BC

Blue Loon Grill, Clearwater, BC

We just stopped in the Blue Loon Grill restaurant in Clearwater town in British Columbia. We were on our way from Jasper to Kamloop. The experience was soul lifting.

The lady was so welcoming and funny.she treated us as family. They did have everything the claim they do. The reason she gave us is the "pony express" did not come. We did not understand at first. Then we understood that she meant "the train". Clearwater is in the middle of nowhere and getting food and supplies is very difficult.




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Monday, July 18, 2011

West Coast Drive ... Again

In less then two hours, we are on our way to a new lomng trip. We are planning to drive to Las Vegas while visiting British Columbia. The tetative sleep overs will be in: Jasper, Kelowna, Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, Hanford then Las Vegas. The return is not planned but might include Utah, Montana and Calgary. Let's see if the plan holds!

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Friday, July 8, 2011

What a deck

We have been working on our deck for a while now. It started with expanding it eastward. Then we had to choose the railings, the color, the style... we had a dream about it, a vision how it should look like. It is turning out to be nothing like what we have imagined it... we had to compromise throughout the process because we cannot find the material we want...

The worst part is that we did our homework. We shopped around town for what exist to do everything around it. We choose railing from Home Hardware. It was on display. High quality black aluminum balusters that are curved in the middle. The railing is beautiful cedar wood that complements the color of our house. When we wanted to buy them. the salesman said he knows nothing about them. He does not know the price, if they are in stock nor if we can order them. He looked at us as crazy people because we are asking to buy something on display. He claimed they have been on display for ages and no one asked for them, so he cannot understand why we want them!! Anyway... like everything else in this town, ignorant sales people who do not know what they are selling have the upper hand.

Another problem is the color. I asked for Walnut Brown solid paint and I got milk podding color. So, I have to buy new paint. Maybe I will ask for red cherry hoping to get the cedar color. I still have to figure out the formula they use.

Something else happened that made me think. A friend sales lady, who works at Rona, tried to help us to choose a faucet for the basin we installed in the garage. We needed an inexpensive one! Something that serve the basic minimum. On our own, we chose one that cost $79. The sales lady decided to help us because we are dear to her. Or so she hinted! After explaining to her what we want, she decided that our choice is not the right one! She showed us another one for $180... she can make it for $160... big saving. We said no. Then she showed us another one for $140 that will become $125! Another big saving. We said no. After 20 minutes of offerings, she tried to convince us to buy our first $79 choice! and we bought it. This made me wonder, was this sales lady friend trying to help us? or rip us off by convincing us to buy what we do not need to have her commission? Or was she just trying to show off? The funny part is that Ron and I took us less than 15 min to choose and carry 9 huge railing boxes, a whole set of plumbing gear and select and buy the paint. While with this lady, who tried to help us, we spent 20 min trying to choose a faucet that we have already chosen! Is this friendship or what?

This made me think: is my fault?... Why did I allow myself to give her 20 min of my time? This will be my focus on my next meditative reflection. I can't tell if I will share my findings with you!